Last year, I planned December 08, 2008 to be my wedding date. I said to myself, I am going to be married on this date no matter what. With or without girlfriend, I'll be married! If I am still single by this date, I'll marry any girl who will agree to get married with me.... sound desperate? not really... just want to get married.... but, that was last year.
Today, it's December 08, 2008, I am still single, and still happy with my single life. I am no longer in a hurry (again) to get married. I may be getting older, but who doesn't? I know, i'll meet her someday... or if she passed my way already, i know we'll meet again... i'm very optimistic. :)